dp and i have his dd 4yo over every tues night for tea for 3 hrs then one week she stays fri night 5pm til sat 5pm the next week we get dsd sat 10am til 5pm sun
dp suggested to his ex last night that it might be better if they did alternate full weekends so both parents get to enjoy a full weekend with dsd as often we cannot get all family visits parties and activites done in a day and a half with dsd and thought her mother would feel the same
dp was also thinking it would be nice that we colud spend some time together on a saturday sometime (or he could tinker wif his cars) as from dsd was 1.5yo she had spend every saturday with dp apart from 3 saturdays she spend with her mother as dp was on holiday at stag do and working
the answer dp ex gave was no to everyother full weekend visits and i quote ' no that wouldnt work because who would i get to mind her when i go out if i have her the whole weekend on my own!
AIBU to think she is being selfish?
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upanddown83 · 24/09/2012 13:33
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