I can't shrug it off, I can't take it lightly. Maybe I need to grow up and grow a thicker skin but it really bothers me! Why is it even an issue for boys to wear tights? Why can't girls wear little tops and things from the boy's section? Why do we keep asking these basic Qs over and over? And WHY on earth do people keep making links between sexuality and gender when you're talking about CHILDREN. Never mind later on, how can a little boy in pink even have his sexuality (which is set in stone from bloody birth) magically switched because of the colour he likes, or someone else has put him in.
Wearing a dress = traditionally feminine. Liking boys = traditionally feminine (not necessarily, even!). Why people would even think that one thing, one "concession", would lead to a slippery slope, I don't know.
I'm putting this all very clumsily but I don't know. I don't want to answer threads re: these sorts of topics because I do find it upsetting. I would really like to hear reasons for having distinct boy's/girl's names, that's the most puzzling thing. Anyone?
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quirrelquarrel · 21/09/2012 11:59
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