Been together 8 years,now on separation(whole other story). He wants to come back but I hate that he still smokes 8 years on even though he promised to quit when we were dating. I feel deceived and this has been one of the biggest barrier re intimacy. But he doesn't seem to get this.
Can't kiss/wont kiss him. He has very bad oral hygiene overall and stinks of tobacco always. His teeth are in a state.I feel that we might have been closer if smoking didn't come between us and I resent that he chose to smoke and not us.
I don't particularly like him I feel, mainly due to his smoking as there is no intimacy. He wont give up as he says he enjoys his tobacco
AIBU??
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To dump him because he smokes
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Dryjuice25 · 20/09/2012 22:19
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