My DP's family have a baby/child's bed that our DC's greatgrandma slept in. All the babies in the family have slept in this cot, there are lovely photos of DP asleep in the cot.
The cot has not been used for a decade and has been kept in SIL's outhouse, it is in need of a paint (it's white but the paint has come off in places) and a new (custom) matress. The cot is supposed to be ok till the child is 2-ish but the sides are only about 30cm high so as soon as DC can sit up he will be able to fall out of the bed, The health and safety rules are not as strict in the country where we live so they just think the baby will learn to not fall out of bed unfortunatly he might break his neck whilst he learns not to fall out of bed (I'm British so my health and safety ideas are different to my DP)
I really want a co-sleeper to go right next to our bed to make night feeds easier and so I'm close to the baby, really the family cot would only be used for daytime naps for the 1st 6 months.
We live in a 1 bedroom apartment so the baby will sleep in with us, our living room is huge so there is space for the cot, but do you really need a cot in the living room?
Do you think I would be unreasonable to say we won't use the cot,? we can spend the time and money it would take to make the cot usable to do something else.
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AIBU to think this is too much faff for the sake of a family heirloom? (baby's cot)
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honeytea · 12/08/2012 16:10
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