Hi Chaps,
Maybe I'm being silly, maybe this is just the culmination of lots of little things, I don't know. Would be good to get your thoughts on the prob below.
A few years ago my husband wasn't happy in his career and wanted to retrain as a doctor and I supported him through this, both emotionally and financially. This was really tough but we always thought things would get better when he started working.
He's now qualified, working but, generally broke as he has loans to repay, plus junior doctors don't earn a great deal. As a result, I had to go back to work full time after just six months when our son was born last year.
Things are still tough and I do spend alot of time budgeting to make ends meet, buying all of our son's clothes, toys etc and making sure he has everything he needs. This means we don't really go out much but I haven't minded until now as I know things will get better.
Today I found out that a couple of weeks ago he and his friends went for a a pal's Birthday and had a slap up meal at Gaucho Grill - not alot of change from £100 a head. I remember him rolling in at 4am, but he said they'd just been to the pub then back to a friend's house.
Considering on my birthday this year he was too broke to buy me a present, and I had to give him money a couple of weeks ago because he was broke, I feel a bit duped. I guess this is the final straw as I've been feeling a bit let down for a while now. I'm beginning to wonder if I've been a bit of a fool and that my son and I are never going to come first for this guy.
If this is the case, I don't even know how I'd broach the subject, I'm so used to just letting things go these days, and he's so good at making me feel guilty. Would be good to get some other perspectives on this.
Over to you guys...
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
AIBU in feeling second best?
6 replies
thevicky · 24/06/2012 20:30
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.