I went out with my ds, dp and mum at weekend to a shopping centre and for lunch, as soon as we were in the car we had my sister ringing my mum asking where she was so my mum told her. Dp was messing on phone while we were shopping and sister had put a comment on fb about some people having it easy. We knew it was aimed at us so dp who had been working all week and Saturday tagged himself shopping and having dinner at nandos (never normally comments on fb bt thought why not if she likes to make comments about us etc) a little childish behaviour on my dp's part but tbh we were both fuming about her putting this on earlier.
Anyway fastforward to coming home and sister rings my mum complaining that she has been stuck in all day etc and then talks about us going out and how it wasnt fair. I text her asking what was going on, and have had abuse non stop since then with things like this: you make me feel bad for not being able to get my children nice things and do things with my children, why should you shop at john lewis etc when I shop at primark! (seriously) I rub it in her face whatever I get and all i talk about is what i buy, I shouldnt shop where I shop as I should be as skint as her and her friend who was with her at the time etc etc.
So I was v annoyed and said what right did she have to say what we do or spend our money on, I have never once rubbed in what I buy currently pg with dc2 so past couple of months i've shown baby bits we've got just in excitment not in a show off way iyswim.
It's carried on and we are currently not talking, i've been v upset about it but tbh now im more angry at what right does anyone have to say the things she said to me her sister, AIBU? Im really not understanding how someone can attack someone for taking their child out and browsing in shops and im not really sure what to do next. Why would I want someone like that in my life that makes me feel guilty for doing anything and talks about me like that.
Sorry rant over now but v angry and emotional about it all.
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The3Bears · 06/06/2012 21:55
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