MIL and I don't have a brilliant relationship so this latest incident may have clouded my judgement and I would be grateful for your thoughts before I talk to DH.
She is a very obsessive doting grandmother who devotes a huge amount of time to her grandchildren (our three are her only three IYSWIM). I find it quite overwhelming and it is the main reason that we struggle to get on. She likes to offer her opinion alot, when it is not asked for, especially on parenting matters e.g. where we send children to school, what they should eat, type of milk they drink, when they should move to beds etc.
However, in her defense she is always really willing to help out with the kids and will always bend over backwards to be available.
DH and I are going away for 3 nights (we are taking newborn as I think it unfair to ask her to be up in the night!). She (with FIL) are looking after our 3.5 year old and 2 year old.
They went to DS's nursery for grandparents morning last week. I have collected DS today from nursery and the teacher has asked if we are going away (yes) and said that MIL has asked permission to take DS out of nursery for the day.
AIBU to be really cross?
I feel it is up to us as parents to make that call with the nursery. I have no issue with them doing something with the kids but surely it is not her place to approach teacher before me or on my behalf?
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AIBU?
about MIL talking to teacher without asking me/DH?
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ChocolateBiscuitCake · 15/05/2012 17:40
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