Have name changed as I feel a complete idiot. There's noone I can talk to in real life, noone who has any clue about how I feel. This probably is a pity party, so sorry.
I just feel paralysed by insecurity at the moment but it's only really in the last day or two I've realised that the problems are mine and mine alone. In the past I've blamed a million other things for how I am.
This morning I sat down and made a list for the first time of all the things that have probably impacted on how I feel. I can safely say though, that no one would ever suspect this is going on in my head.
Moved house and schools before age 13 x 8 times
Raped by stranger at 11 - to this day only a few people know and I never told my parents
Didn't have many friends
Was bullied a bit at school
Dh hit me the first Christmas we were together
Had an abortion
Had an affair and got caught
Paying off 90k debt (1 year to go)
Secrets, so many bloody secrets. I'd love to be free from it all. But I feel like I'm stuck, can't come clean to anyone because a) there's noone really to trust and b) have high powered job where all that shit up there WOULD have an impact.
I tried counselling once, went to a house where a woman in an orange skirt just said (when I told her about the rape) oh, poor you. I don't know what to say. I never went back.
Deep breath, press create.
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46andacompletemess · 15/05/2012 09:26
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