So, my friend's husband has decided out of the blue that he doesn't like me. No idea why. I've always got on fine with him and we've never had any cross words.
I noticed a few weeks ago that he had deleted me off face book and I didn't say anything or feel upset or bothered as I know some people only like to have close friends on their list. Now he's started ignoring me too when we bump into each other. My friend has said that he has now said I can't go round to their house and she can't come to my house, which has upset me. I asked her why and she said she doesn't know but he has just said he doesn't like me now.
I'm not bothered about him not liking me, I can live without him liking me, although it is a little hurtful that nothing at all has happened. I don't see him a great deal but we've always chatted. Now he just glares at me. I popped a birthday present round at the weekend for one of their children and he opened the door, saw it was me, shut the door in my face and then my friend came to answer the door.
So I don't think I am going to bother with either of them now. I wouldn't tolerate my DH being rude to one of my friends and I think she should stand up to him and tell him not to be rude to me. By saying nothing she is enabling his behaviour.
We are talking about a 40 year old grown man by the way, not a 15 year old.
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Butterlicious · 30/04/2012 16:13
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