Hi, my first post here so please bear with me !
Anyway, My oldest DS is 4, and before he was born I joined an ante natal group. We met up fairly regurlarly, and while I wasn't buddy-buddy with anyone in particular, (Everyone else is older/richer than me) but that was OK.
However, a few of the others are getting pretty chummy and I have essentially been 'dumped'. At the end of last year the 'leader' who does the roster of when we meet up, who organises etc said she'd do another roster, but I haven't heard hide nor hair from her since. Well actually, I did email offering to organise and asking when did she think suited else but got a terse reply stating she 'would try and organise something after easter.'
Anyway, what has kinda hurt is that in the last month there have been photos put up on Facebook of the others having playdates from earlier this year, I drove past the one who lives close to me and saw the others' cars in her drive, and now there have been photos of birthday parties been put up on Facebook - one with every child except my DS invited !
Now that hurt. The thing that gets me is that I was always nice and helped organise things, really made an effort, where another mum wasn't keen on meeting up (Sent and email saying we were meeting up to often for her. I got the impression she thought some of us were 'beneath' her), never helped out and now shes been bloody invited to all the parties !
Anyway, hopefully meeting up with 2 of the others tmrw, really want to say something, but I know I'm gonna be told by MN-etters not to ! esp re parties.
Any advice would be great ! Hope this makes sense !
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kiwimumof2boys · 17/04/2012 23:36
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