Grandmother-in-law is very ill with cancer, and has had a stroke. She lives 3 doors down from my mother in law. Mother in law has "moved in" to help care for her since the stroke which happened overnight/this morning.
Grandmother-in-law's son (mother in law's brother) has come to the locality to be with his mother at what might end up being the end of her life, or in any event is a serious health concern/setback
He can't stay with Grandmother in law as mother in law is (to care/help, despite living 3 doors down though overnight etc, fair enough).
Despite there being 3 bedrooms free at MIL's house (with FIL still there and being in the master bedroom) my mother in law has told her brother he can't stay at her house 3 doors away from his mother, and that he must get a hotel.
They have never got along terribly well but AIBU in thinking this is a very sad state of affairs and that there must be some major shizzle happening for MIL to shun him in this way? Have just overheard DH telling her off for being "inhospitable" and "creating unnecessary obstacles".
They have recently had us to stay (family of 4) and have their granddaughter to stay whenever she likes, so they are not adverse to guests...on their terms.
Of course it is their right to say no but AIBU in assuming there must be some major history that she would be so obstructive to her only brother/sibling at what is likely to be the end of her mother's life or am I just overly accomodating?
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TattyDevine · 11/04/2012 20:29
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