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AIBU?

My neighbours dogs

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mogwhistle · 03/03/2012 00:50

My neighbour has right of way over our yard however she has two dogs which she allows to run around our yard. They poo and wee all over her bit of the yard which is fine by me but I'm not happy about them doing same over out bit. My DH doesn't think I should say anything even though the dogs have smashed 4 of my garden ornaments would I be unreaseonable to say somethign?

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WorraLiberty · 03/03/2012 00:52

Of course not

What is your DH's reasoning?

Cheddars · 03/03/2012 00:54

I don't think you'd BU at all. The fact she hasn't apologised or cleaned it up suggests she might not be very receptive though.

HalfPastWine · 03/03/2012 00:55

I wouldn't be happy about poo and wee all over her yard either to be honest. The stink must be awful especially in hot weather. I daren't even think about the flies !!!

Needs sorting, maybe invite her round for a coffee and have a word.

mogwhistle · 03/03/2012 01:03

we have only been here a couple of months but the stink indeed is very bad! i've asked her to keep the dogs on a leash when they are crossing out bit of the yard but it seems to have fallen on deaf ears! We have the same landlord so I'm really not wanting to rock the boat iyswim

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Boomerwang · 03/03/2012 02:07

How come she has right of way over your yard?

Talk to your landlord about it since you share the same one.

Were you made aware of this 'right of way' before you move in?

CoffeeDog · 03/03/2012 09:34

Can you not make a chicken wire pathway for them to use? Stop the dogs using your garden as a toliet?

redpanda13 · 03/03/2012 10:47

Why would it be rocking the boat with your landlord? Surely they would want to know if their property is covered in shit?

Shutupanddrive · 03/03/2012 11:33

No way should you have to put up with that. It's disgusting, the least they could do is clean it up!

Cherriesarelovely · 03/03/2012 12:22

Blimey you have some inconsiderate neighbours! Of course YANBU!

bochead · 03/03/2012 13:27

As a dog owner I'd say report her to the rspca. She's a lazy dirty cow. Bang on her front door and demand she picks up the poop and hoses down with a vetinary disinfectant.

How dare she foul your living environment?
Where do your chidren play? Where do you hang your laundry and enjoy a cuppa in the summer sunshine?

Be aware that if it is YOUR yard that stinks at some point you may get a visit from environmental health and order for YOU to clean and disenfect it! The landlord may then blame you.

I'm a firm believer that you shouldn't have a dog if you aren't willing to pick up after it, just as you shouldn't have a baby if you don't wanna change nappies.

StrandedBear · 03/03/2012 13:29

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iscream · 03/03/2012 16:39

Let your landlord know.

LilacWaltz · 03/03/2012 16:48

Env health, call them!

BigGirlInASmallWorld · 03/03/2012 16:54

You dio need to address this situation with your neighbour, pronto, I'm afraid. The stink must be terrible. You have the right to enjoy your back yard as it is an extension of your house.

mogwhistle · 03/03/2012 18:45

Thanks all for your responses! Her bit of the yard is fenced off with a gate but she has to let them over our bit to get to her bit. I've asked DH to put a gate up to prevent them coming near the kitchen door (they scrabble at it and leave muddy paw marks) and I've complained about this but she seems very thick skinned!

She's lived there a couple of years and we've only been here a couple of months it's a very small village and her brother lives over the road. Not sure if landlord would side with her because she's been their tenant a lot longer. Already dreading summer cos I know I won't be able to sit outside because of the smell and the constant barking. I guess we should consider moving but it's a great house in a great location and really don't want to!

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TidyDancer · 03/03/2012 19:19

Environmental health won't get involved with this kind of thing, it's too minor. Neither will your local animal warden. And don't even bother thinking about the RSPCA, they struggle to deal with animal welfare correctly, let alone turd issues.

That said, I'm not trying to belittle the nuisance of it because it's horrible and disgusting, but this is an issue for your LL. If your pleas so far have fallen on deaf ears, you will have to ask them to get involved.

Shutupanddrive · 03/03/2012 19:31

Do you actually clean up her dogs poo then? I hope you throw it back over to her side!

VinegarTits · 03/03/2012 19:36

go and shit on her bit of the yard, tell her you will keep on doing so until she stops her mutts doing the same on your bit

mogwhistle · 03/03/2012 19:45

They pooed a couple of times on our bit and I did chuck it back on her bit but they wee a lot - the stains are up the walls and doors of our storage rooms and this stinks just as bad as the poo. VinegarTits I like your way of thinking! Going have to have strong words with her I think but I'm not great at confrontation I just wish she'd be more considerate.

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PrincessWellington · 03/03/2012 21:23

You shouldn't have to but try stuff from pet shop that deters dogs fouling. She sounds like a lovely neighbour

mogwhistle · 03/03/2012 21:56

Thanks PrincessWellington I'll have a look for some - didn't realise stuff like that exsisted.

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