Last year I had to go to a course for work and was going to be back late. My mum said she would collect DD from school and stay with her until I got home. I spoke to her in the morning and she was fine. Got a call from the school that afternoon to say dd hadn't been collected. Called my mum and she was very drunk with no idea of the day or time. I managed to get DD collected and left early (very embarassed having to explain that). Then got stuck in 3hr tailback because of an accident. It was a very stressful day so I decided not to rely on my mum any more.
She spent the year moaning at me to let her help with DD and saying it's my fault she drinks as I stress her out. 2 weeks ago I had to take dd2 to the dr and the only emergency appointment I could get was 3pm. The school is directly across from the health centre so I caved in and asked my mum to collect dd1 and bring her across to meet us. I figured that it wouldn't put too much pressure on her but when I called my mum at ten to 3 she was very drunk again. Had to cancel the appointment at the last minute to collect dd1. Next morning my mum called as she had just remembered she was supposed to collect dd and didn't know where she was.
I decided I was right the first time and shouldn't rely on her. She has spent the last 2weeks going on at me about how distespectful I am not to trust her and begging me to let her baby sit but I won't.
She can't seem to have just a drink but is either sober or fall down drunk. Often she gets drunk when she has to do something to the point of blacking out.
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Hecubasdaughter · 26/02/2012 10:22
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