Slightly long story, please bear with me:
Last week I had surgery, came home from hospital and a couple of days later, on Friday while I still tried tried to recover my DS1 was sick in the night and then again in the morning and therefore couldn't go to school.
On Monday (the first day my husband went back to work) DS1 went back to school and after 1 hour I had a phone call from school that DS2 had been sick in school and could I get him. I physically couldn't get to school because I didn't feel well enough, so a friend picked up DS2 who then proceeded to be sick for 10 hours, and has been off sick from school ever since (was sick again last night and can't eat). So this week has been a nightmare, me trying to recover while looking after a poorly 8 year old DS2.
Yesterday DS1 came home in tears: on the Friday he was off sick from school his class was told to complete 15 pages in their Maths Practice book (which prepares them for the SATS); on Monday when I had asked DS1 what homework he had, he told me the only homework they got was to practice their lines for tomorrow's assembly - they don't usually get homework on a Friday, so I didn't think anymore of it. Anyway, yesterday he came home in tears (at 5.20pm, because on Wednesday the whole Year 6 has SATS practice) because today their maths homework was in and he was to complete the 15 pages in one evening rather than 5.5 days. I tried to calm him down and reassured him, we would do as much as possible and I would speak with his teacher today.
When we opened his school bag he realised that he had forgotten his maths book at school. So, this morning, as I couldn't take DS1 to school as I had to stay home with sick DS2, my husband specifically took time off in the morning to take DS1 to school (who was still really upset and worried - he worries a lot!) and speak to his teacher to apologise and reassure him that DS1 would do it over the weekend and catch up with any other work.
Today DS1 comes home from school again in tears - he now has to finish the 15 pages tonight (1 page takes him about 30 minutes, so there is no way he can do it properly) and the teacher said to him "My mum NEVER came in to speak to MY teacher".
What do we do? I am so pissed off, I want to just do the whole 15 pages and just tell DS1 what to write (rather than help him with questions he gets stuck on, which is what I usually do). I also want to speak to the headmaster and complain about the attitude of the teacher. DS1 is not an easy child - he takes criticism very badly, he is super sensitive and we find it often difficult to negotiate with him - we don't want to tell him always that he's brilliant, but he really thrives on positive feedback and internalises every criticism and swallows it and then really goes over and over in his head about every detail of the criticism. He is average in maths and in my opinion could do much better if he was more confident.
I appreciate that I am seething just now and might not make the most sensible decision. Any suggestions how to deal with this the best?
And, tomorrow morning is DS1 assembly to which both my husband and I are going and I now feel like totally blanking the teacher. Agghhh - I'm so pissed off!
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viktoria · 19/01/2012 17:49
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