I have such an awkward and problematic relationship with my mum I can't see the wood for the trees but - is this normal? I know it's trivial but I think it's getting to me in a last straw kind of a way.
She asked me what I wanted for christmas - I have said in the past I'd be happy not to have xmas presents for adults, but she ignored me, now I just play along. I mentioned some posh boden woolly socks and sent her a link (the kind of thing I love, but are a bit too £££ to buy myself, but a reasonable amount for a christmas present judging by previous experience).
She emailed back that she couldn't get me them because "personally I don't find them attractive so you can get them for yourself" and offering something else.
Oh god I sound so petty but it makes me want to cry. It's not about the present, not at all, I'd be happy with no present - it's just the years of her thinking that she's so caring and fab while actually being totally self-centred and giving not a shit about how anyone else really feels.
For chrissakes I have got her presents I knew she wanted or had asked for, that I thought were vile, but that's not the point surely?
There is HUGE backstory to all this and things are coming to a head at the moment. There's a family situation I can't go into for fear of it being recognised (legal issues) and my mum is doing my nut in.
If this is the most trivial whinge you've ever heard just ignore me!
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LadyWord · 03/12/2011 20:37
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