Me and DH had massive bust up with his Mum and Father in Law last Xmas. They have not spoken to me since and DH has spoken to his Mum a few times. No apology, nothing, it was hideous and not our fault to cut a long story short.
They now say they would like to come for Xmas and I think NOOOOOOO.
Many many reasons why eg: DS's would have to share a bedroom, bathroom a state and needs redoing which we all have to share, they sit there and do not lift a finger, don't buy any food or drink, we have to eat when they want too. His Mum is really fussy everything has to be organic and she talks non stop all the time, even with food in her mouth and I mean all the time, she even talked to me though the loo door list year whilst I was having a number 2; it's exhausting. And we can't afford all the extra. It's a big hassle normally let alone when they were so badly behaved last year.
I think a hotel (which they can afford) would be a good compromise, they have a nice Xmas lunch, see the children etc etc but we are not in each others faces and on top of one another.
DH thinks it's a bit odd. AIBU?
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To insist MIL & FIL stay in a hotel if they want to come for Xmas?
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carocaro · 07/11/2011 11:28
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