I'll try to keep this short but am in a very ranty mood.
Younger sister is 30. She lives at home with my parents, as she has done since leaving university (where she lived in hall for 3 years) aside from a stint living out for around 6 months last year. She pays no rent/board and is allowed to treat the place as she sees fit - her room puts the grubbiest 14 year old's to shame, and the less said about the bathroom she uses the better.
She is constantly in trouble with money, in spite of having no living expenses or bills to pay (though she insists that paying the minimum payment on her credit cards each month is "paying bills") and has been bailed out by my parents a number of times now, to the tune of many thousands of pounds.
She has been fired from her last three jobs, and has now just got a new one, in a town some miles from where she lives which would require around an hour and a half on the bus commute. She knew this when she applied for the job and did regardless. Anyway, now she has the job my mother is buying her a car to get to and from work. Because my sister is so spoiled precious she can't be expected to take the bus every day and hence has been bought said car. This is the second one they've given her in the last 7 or so years (and DH gave her our old one when she needed a car but she left it off the road, going to ruin and sold it for pennies in the spring).
Anyway, I am totally fuming! I didn't even get a birthday present this year and she has been given a car? Would it be terribly unreasonable of me to go round and demand I am afforded the same treatment as her? Or to knock some sense into them all? I feel like a teenager whining it's not fair and stamping my foot, but it's really not. Why is she given more for being totally useless, and I (and my older sister) get nothing?
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afishcalledmummy · 25/10/2011 17:07
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