Dh is going to a stag do for an old uni friend in a few weeks time. He asked me if some friends of his, a couple in Northern Ireland, could stay at ours that weekend as they don't have much money and London hotel prices are beyond them. Fine, I said, no problem. But now it has turned out that the couple intend to bring their two children, aged 4 and 7, and that the wife isn't going to the stag do, and she had suggested we go Christmas shopping while the boys go on the stag thing.
Now, I've never met this couple. They didn't come to our wedding two years ago because they couldn't afford it. The last time dh saw them was years ago when the group of friends went over to NI to stay with this couple and I wasn't invited because dh's ex was (which is all water under the bridge, but worth mentioning to illustrate that these are hardly close friends of dh's). We have a 16 month old and I'm pregnant with dc2. Christmas shopping on Oxford Street (presumably where she wants to go) would be pretty pants for dd, and not exactly my idea of fun. I don't know these children, but if they are of the variety that get up at 6am and run around in an excited state all day then go to bed late, the prospect of hosting them simply fills me with dread. I don't have much energy at the moment with being first trimester and I'm finding dd exhausting as it is. I've never been around older children much, so I find interacting with them doesn't come naturally and is hard work.
Obviously it would be mean to say no to this couple, as we have the space, and if we don't host them they probably won't be able to come, so I've said ok. But I can't help feeling grumpy about it, and dh clearly thinks I'm being mean and antisocial.
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Rhubarbgarden · 22/10/2011 13:12
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