Can you be one type of person at home, and another when you're with people outside the home?
Something another poster said about the OPs DH being a hypocrite because he presented himself as one thing to others, but was actually totally different at home (sorry, I've looked and can't find the post, or I'd credit them).
I'm a relatively normal person (shurrup, I fucking am! in my own head ), but with a group of people, I'm definately not the same person as I am when it's just me and DH.
And it's just sods law that I'll voice a strong opinion about something to someone one day, and the next I'll be forced to do the total opposite making me look like a right twat
I accept this about myself/human nature, but I know my mum and brother just can't get their heads round the fact that people change their minds about certain things over their lifetime.
They would see it as lying and hypocritical (even though they do it themselves all. the. time!), and I suspect they find the unpredictablity of people hard to get their heads round.
So, would you say there are bits of you that are consistent, but other parts that maybe would vary according to who you're talking to.
And that this isn't deceit or hypocricy, but just human nature?
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To think everyone behaves differently at home than they do when they're 'out'?
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AgentZigzag · 21/10/2011 22:28
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