I'm waiting for the head of subject to call me back...
Dd is in year 8. Whenever she has maths homework she struggles. They don't bring their exercise books home with them, nor do they have text books. Generally it's just a worksheet. So I sit and help her. But it's not just support help, it's start from scratch help. Whenever I ask her why she doesn't understand it, she says she asks for help but the teacher brushes it off with a "I've explained it three different ways, why don't you understand it?" etc... So Dd is now embarrassed to ask.
So this week I have yet again had to do her homework with her. Tbh my maths skills aren't bad, but even I didn't understand it. It's a photocopied work sheet, with no explanation, examples nothing. No text book or exercise book to refer to, so I tell Dd as the homework wasn't due til today, she would need to go in, find the teacher and ask for help. Dd refuses. Now she says in the lesson the homework was set the teacher was being assessed by head of subject. The class were warned prior to said assessment that they were not to ask any questions during the assessment as it would look as though she (the teacher) wasn't explaining things properly. Teacher then finished by saying that if it looked like they didn't understand then they would be moved to a lower set, and 'she didn't want to lose any of them'.
As I realise kids this age do sensationalise things, I have asked a couple of the other girls in dd's class, who have all supported it. I asked them away from dd so they couldn't be led etc... It also seems she's not the only one who's struggling but afraid to seek help. Dd however was adamant she did not want me to do anything about it because she's afraid of repercussions!
So AIBU for calling the head of dept? Or should I have spoken to the teacher first? Should I have done anything at all against Dd's wishes? It's not too late, when he calls back I could just make something up, but urgh!
I don't know! I do really I guess, but I'm crap at this, but don't know what to say without looking like a total busybody! Aaargh! Help!
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LoulouCapone · 21/10/2011 09:56
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