I've been away on a business trip since Friday - got back this evening. I've been Skyping DP and DD every day since I've been away and DH has been filling me in on the post that's arrived etc. He said that two letters had arrived from my solicitor (regarding ex's access to DD) and I told him to leave them and I'd see them when I get back.
So I got back tonight to find that the letters have been opened. I asked him about them and he shrugged and admitted he opened them but that it was no big deal as he knew the letters were about DD.
Why has this annoyed me so much? He's been living with us for a year (although we've been together for 2) and is a fantastic step-dad to DD but I feel like it's none of his business. Obviously he knows what's going on but opening my mail and finding out about things before I do? He opened them on Sunday and didn't even mention it.
I probably am BU as it is his DSD and he is as worried as I am about what ExH will throw at us next but it's just made me a bit
WDYT? Feel free to leave glass of wine and tell me to go away [hsmile]
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coldcustard · 18/10/2011 23:00
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