DD has gone to Uni and is having a great time. Am missing her being around but its in a sorted way IYKWIM, am really happy that she is enjoying it. She wants to come home one weeknight next week to see us and our new kittens (aaw). Its a longish journey, and we'll just have one evening together then she's going back until Christmas.
Only thing is, she wants to bring a friend from Uni to stay. I know its dead selfish but as its the only time we'll see her, and its for just one evening, I'd really like it to just be her so we can have a lovely catch up. The other side issue is that her bedroom was a proper (and oh I do mean proper) tip before she left. I havent sorted it yet and tbh I had decided to get her to do it when she came home at Christmas. Have slung some rubbish into bags but nothing else, and its so awful I wouldnt want anyone to see it to be honest. She's not bothered - all her local friends just got used to it being the way it is, but I think anyone else would probably be quite shocked by it!
Should I just be pleased she's bringing her friend? Should I ask her to come on her own? Should I do her bedroom if she does bring a friend? Can I be arsed to spend a day doing it for her?
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To just want my DD to stay and not her friend?
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follyfoot · 18/10/2011 22:53
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