namechanger with genuine not sure if IABU or not
I was staying over at my cousin's house with my DD (3). When I was getting her dressed I had left the bedroom door open as no one was upstairs at the time. As I was putting her pants on I saw her DS (9) standing at the bedroom door staring at DD. I asked him to not watch DD getting changed but he refused to move from the doorway and continued staring. I had to actually stop and walk across the room and close the door in his face. He didn't say sorry or anything.
A while ago, something else happened which made me a little uneasy. The DCs were playing in the bedroom. I was checking on them every so often but one time when I went in they were hiding under the cover. They moved as I pulled the cover off but it appeared that DD was lying down, legs splayed and the boy was kneeling looking at her. (She had a nightdress on but no pants because she was going through a phase of constantly taking them off) He looked very guilty but I never questioned him on it, I just seperated them.
So what does the MN jury think? Normal behaviour? They hardly ever see each other so DD isn't at risk and I wont be letting them play alone together anymore regardless. I haven't mentioned it to his Mum. Should I? I'm not used to boys this age so not sure if this is just natural curiosity.
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AIBU?
should I be concerned or am I reading too much into this?
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ayebooo · 18/10/2011 19:40
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