This has nothing to do with his appearance, I still love him and I'm still attracted to him. But I am so concerned about his weight. He has gained a lot of weight over the past few years and does absolutely no exercise. He is classed as morbidly obese. He used to play some 5-a-side football and we used to swim together. However now we have DS we can't exercise together and he won't go alone.
I cook healthy meals and have stopped buying junk snacks because he will tend to eat it all in one go. However, there is a vending machine at work where he seems to buy crisps and chocolate every day (he leaves the wrappers in his lunch pack). He won't eat any fruit or veg. I have to blend up veg in sauces to hide them. When I serve a sensible portion of food, he will top himself up with bread and butter.
Adult onset diabetes seems to run in his family (FIL has it and FIL's dad had it) so this concerns me. I don't know if I'm being irrational but I'm so worried he's going to have a heart attack before he's 40.
How do I talk to him about this without hurting his feelings? I don't want him to feel bad about himself. I want to help him.
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
to be concerned about DH's weight?
29 replies
JugsMcGee · 18/10/2011 12:55
OP posts:
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
NotJustClassic ·
18/10/2011 14:19
This reply has been deleted
Message withdrawn at poster's request.
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.