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To be hugely pissed of with my radical feminist friend.

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NambaJam Mon 17-Oct-11 14:57:37

She was at my house this morning and felt it her place to lecture me that because I am married I am in servitude. (WTF!) And another lecture that allowing my husband to have PIV sex with me was tanatamount to him sexualy assaulting me on a regular basis.

Now I can utterly accept her not wanting to have PIV sex. But who the fuck is she to tell me I damn well shouldnt? She then banged on that it was abusive due to the risk of unwanted pregnancy. (DH has had the snip, so no risk) I happen to like being penetrated and will happily penetrate myself for enjoyment.
Sex for me is a very varied thing and involves many things.

I know that some feminists have strong views on marriage, but again its my life and MY choice. And I certainly dont live in any kind of bloody servitude.

ScaredBear Mon 17-Oct-11 14:58:56

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

PetisaPumpkinHead Mon 17-Oct-11 14:59:21

What's PIV sex?

needanewname Mon 17-Oct-11 14:59:47

What is piv?

needanewname Mon 17-Oct-11 15:00:14

Glad it's not just me!

NambaJam Mon 17-Oct-11 15:01:03

PIV = Penis in vagina.

Sorry should have said in post smile

iMemoo Mon 17-Oct-11 15:01:44

Penis in vagina?

cakeoclock Mon 17-Oct-11 15:01:51

PIV? Penis in vag? She sounds like an idiot. Ignore her and let her know you will be enjoying a bit of PIV tonight just to annoy her.

ScaredBear Mon 17-Oct-11 15:01:53

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

Booooooyhoo Mon 17-Oct-11 15:02:23

penetrative something vaginal?

Hammy02 Mon 17-Oct-11 15:02:54

All I can picture is the character 'Millie Tant' from Viz.

AKissIsNotAContract Mon 17-Oct-11 15:03:05

Tell her you do PIBUM too

TheVermiciousKnid Mon 17-Oct-11 15:03:19


ElsieOops Mon 17-Oct-11 15:03:23

YABVU to be pissed off - you should have just rolled on the floor laughing at her being ridiculous... assuming this actually happened.

ThePumpkinKing Mon 17-Oct-11 15:03:24

I don't know ScaredBear , PITA maybe grin

Booooooyhoo Mon 17-Oct-11 15:03:33


isn't penis in vagina sex the whole reason the human race exists? does she know how she was made?

manicbmc Mon 17-Oct-11 15:03:35

Isn't the whole point in feminism that we have the choice? It is our choice to do what makes us happy and if that happens to make a man happy too, then great.

Your friend sounds like a misery. If she can't accept a fellow woman's choices then she can hardly call herself a feminist.

WhollyGhost Mon 17-Oct-11 15:05:15

[hmm here too

troisgarcons Mon 17-Oct-11 15:05:18

PIV? This is a problem? Have I been doing it all wrong? Where is the P supposed to go if not in the V?

"wanders off bemused and about to burst into hysterical laughter"

Putrifyno Mon 17-Oct-11 15:06:07


NambaJam Mon 17-Oct-11 15:06:23

ScaredBear smile oh the many options! Sex to me dosent need me to have DH penetrate me. But its nice when he does smile

Fingers, lips, tounge, hands, and just about anything else our warped minds can come up with all count as sex to me

iggi999 Mon 17-Oct-11 15:06:35

It's mot her feminist views that are at fault here surely, but her rudeness at commenting on your life without invitation.
Eg as a vegetarian, I think my friends are wrong to eat meat but as I have some manners and respect others' pov, I would not come round to your house and tell you this!

Georgimama Mon 17-Oct-11 15:06:35

Where is the P supposed to go if not in the V?

armpit, perhaps.

PetisaPumpkinHead Mon 17-Oct-11 15:06:54

grin at "Where is the P supposed to go if not in the V?"

omnishambles Mon 17-Oct-11 15:08:34

2 out of 10

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