When visiting in laws at weekend Pissed me off again. Since dd, now 10 mths, the relationship with MiL has got v strained.
I always encourage her to spend time with dd, and she loves it. Sometimes it's over bearing but I know on,y because she gets so excited.
I always let her feed dd, usually I get the food ready, check temperature of it, hand to MiL to feed. At the weekend, I was heating the food, Mil took it out cold and I checked it and said it needed more time. I was about to take it out and MiL literally grabbed it, and said let me do it, I will do it, etc. About a thousand times q forcefully. I said there's no need to say it like that I would have let you do it anyway! She scurried off with food and put dd in a bouncer lying down (!) to feed the piping hot food. I intervened before shecstarted feed g and it was scalding so told her to wait.
I don't mind her feeding dd at all, but she's always so grabby / forceful. At family events I don't get to hold dd at all as MiL and FiL grab her. They made her cry recently so I took her to calm her down, they then tried to grab her back - I said I will bring hervover in a minute just let her settle, they then kept tryi g to grab her from my arms. I did give dd to them when she was calm, just hate the grabby / forceful thing.
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Angel786 · 17/10/2011 11:26
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