DS2 due at end of November, dp has 6 days holiday leave left and says he will use those instead of taking pat leave then we won't lose any money.
Was really looking forward to him taking 2 wks off as really enjoyed this time with ds1. Had PND when I had DD 10 yrs ago, he went back to work on a night shift within 3 hrs of us bringing her home and whilst I'm sure PND wasn't caused by this I don't think it helped.
I have been expecting him to use his 6 days leave and take 1 wk pat leave but he thinks that we will lose too much money in Xmas wage. AIBU to think sod the money we'll manage or should I just stop being a mardy arse and just get on with it?
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To be fed up with my dp for refusing to take paternity leave for financial reasons?
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Heavensmells · 16/10/2011 17:36
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