Dont really want advice, just to rant to someone.
I have not seen or spoken to my mother for 5 years after she cut me out when she thought i made a bad decision to keep my family together, and i then got a barage of abuse from her. I have never looked back. (Really long story, cut really short. )
Anyway, my Mother also has not spoke to my sister in 7 years, But she is only 21 and very impressionable! They meet up for the first time today (Which im not happy about, but i know there is nothing i can do but be there for my sister)
My Sister told Mother I want nothing to do with her, and apparently she 'respects' my choice! Choice?? It isnt much of a choice! In an ideal world i would love a relationship with my Mum, But its a crap world and i have a crap mother, who does nothing but ruin peoples lifes!!!
Im worried she will suck my Sister in then use her to get to me! this is making me feel so vulnerable! I 'know' in my head im strong enough to stay away, but i dont 'feel' it in my heart. How can i possibly have a relationship with someone who turns there back on their pregnant daughter and 2 year old grandson because i chose to stay with my DP after he had a drunken kiss. If she 'RESPECTED' my choice then, she would have seen it was the best choice i have ever made!
This is all going to end very badly!
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Coffeeisking · 15/10/2011 22:32
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