Spoke to the teacher a while ago saying that my 7 year old dd has been upset on occassion because she says she has no friends and that he other children dont want to play with her. The teacher told me she would keep an eye on her. At parents evening this week the teacher told me that aparently my dd plays on her own and "sings and talks to herself" and that she cant force anyone to play with her, aparently she plays bat and ball on her own so thats ok . I have tried going down the route of "would you like to invite someone home" but my dd actually recoils at the idea of this.
The teacher did repeatedly mention the way she speaks so i wonder if this has been mentioned in class we moved from southern england to the north a year ago and she still has a very different accent.
I didnt really know what to say at the time but the more I think about it the more upset i get at the tought of her standing on her own playign bat and ball and singing to herself. I dont expect the teacher to handcuff children to her until they play or anythign along those lines but surely just shrugging her shoulders and saying that my dd seems happy is not enough?
AIBU to expect the school to start looking at why she is so isolated be this a problem on her side, the other chidlren or a bit of both- she is wonderfully sociable at home and she recently started at beavers where she seems to be getting on with the other children (boys - she always make friends with boys rather than girls).
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Dirtydishesmakemesad · 14/10/2011 13:24
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