Our 10mo DS is teething so wakes easily at the moment. DP had to work late last night - 9pm - and was going to the cinema with his friends after. I didnt mind because bedtime is 7pm so it makes no diffference what time DP comes home, as once DS is down, he usually stays down so Id have the evening to myself for once.
Well not last night.
DS was sick in my hair at 7pm. But he went down at 7.30 fairly nicely. Then, just as I was about to get myself settled for the evening, the house phone rings. We live in a tiny flat and the phone is LOUD. My DS was well and truly up after that.
I settled him again (45 minutes) and was about to move away to start my evening. The phone rings again. I slammed it down without answering and then unplugged it, but DS was awake.
I settled him AGAIN (40 minutes) and finally found out it was my DP and Mum calling me. For no reason, just for a chat. They both know when bedtime is. By now I was crying with frustration. It was now past 9 o clock. I ate some dinner and got in the bath to wash the sick out of my hair.
DP came home and woke DS up when he shut the front door. I asked if he could settle him, seeing as I was in the bath. DS didn't settle after 5 minutes so DP asked if I could get out of the bath to do it. I did. DP could see I was crying and said nothing.
We went to bed (well, DP fell asleep on the sofa while I was settling the baby) and after an hour, DS woke again. DP got up to go to him and after a while I heard a scream like he was in pain. DP was holding him down in his cot?!?!?! I asked DP what the hell he was doing and he said 'Ive been at work all day, cant you shut him up'. ER.... IVE BEEN TRYING BUT YOU BASTARDS KEEP WAKING HIM UP!!!!!!!!
DS and I moved to the front room to sleep for the night and I hate my DP's guts this morning. AIBU?
- I realise our main problem is the size of this shoebox flat.