I've been briefly seeing someone for a few weeks, nothing serious, just coffee with plans of cinema and a meal next weekend. However it came to my attention that his teen DD is constantly left alone at their house. She's only 14 and is routinely left alone all night whilst he works nights or otherwise stays out. On these nights she has friends over and by the sounds of it these 14 year olds are just left to their own devices all night. It sounds to me like a youth hostel where he occasionally checks in IYSWIM?? He's told me already he's found condoms in her room, if she knows he's out all night she could be having anyone back there. Anyway he mentioned something to me about this last night and I told him I thought she was far too young to have the run of the house like this and that anything could be going on during these "free nights". He didn't like it and is now being a bit off with me but I felt someone needed to say something.
Should I just have kept quiet?? WIBU?
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HullEnzia · 13/10/2011 08:03
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