ExP and I seperated at the begining of July, VERY amicable 90% of the time with a few incidences of him being a total cockwomble
DS was two in August so will be 2.4 at Christmas
ExP has very kindly agreed that if I want to go to my family a 100+ miles 4 hours round trip away he will come there to drop off/pick up DS on Xmas day if I cover petrol costs (which I think is a very kind offer and v.reasonable of him)
But has also suggested we could open gifts together xmas morning at my home
Now I quite like this idea, we've had a few joint outings with DS that have gone well and I don't relish the idea of spending time with exP (no chance of reconciling) I don't hate spending time with him either
I thought that he could come over xmas eve, stay in the spare room then open gifts with DS in the morning, and take him to his Mum's about 11.30 when he's due a nap and bring him back boxing day.
This would mean I'd be alone for Xmas lunch/evening, but I have a friend who I could go to (another single Mum) and actually quite like the idea of vegging out in front of the TV by myself TBH
When I've mentioned this to my family, they've all said I'm BvvvvvU to even consider having ExP stay Xmas eve and that it will be traumatic (I kid you not exact word used) and confusing for DS
So AIBU to want a "family" Xmas morning? should I ingore my family or take exP up on his kind offer to do lots of driving?
I genuinely don't know here and am totally willing to accept I am BU
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to have ExP stay xmas eve so we and DS can open gifts together
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MrsMooo · 12/10/2011 13:03
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