Hi ladies,
After some advice if you would. Sorry its a long one.
I really dislike where I live. Its partly the house (which needs a lot of work doing to it), but also partly the street (full of idiots who generally make my life a misery). I would love to move, but have put it to the back of my mind, but now DH is adamant he wants to move too (before he was never that bothered) so we are seriously considering it. Now this creates 2 problems which I would like your honest opinions please.
We live in a council house so we may have to make some sacrifices cos there's not a lot just sitting around empty waiting for people.
Firstly, to get the best chance of getting somewhere we might have to look a bit further out than our neighbourhood which would mean DS (age 6) would have to change schools. Not normally a problem for most, but he has been diagnosed with Autism. One of the big characteristics is routine, if DS were to change schools he would have to cope with new teachers, new children, new building, new routines etc etc etc all of which are generally hard for Autistic people to generaly cope with, plus I also feel bad for the school. They have done a lot for DS including getting him a really really nice TA who both DS and me really get on with (I couldnt have picked a better person myself). She of course would then potentially be unemployed if we changed DS's school (not something I feel comfortable with)
The second thing is we may have to downsize too which would mean DD1 and DD2 would have to grow up sharing a bedroom, there's just under 4 yrs age gap. I know other people have done this, but as I havent I would like to know what its like. Is it something that can be lived with or should it be avoided at all costs?
All I want is a house that I feel comfortable in, one where if I need to go to the shop Im not checking to see who's outside first, one where Im not terrified of it snowing in winter (last year we were bombarded with snowballs for hours). Am i being selfish to think about moving when it would mean all my children may have to sacrifice something just so I can be happier?
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to consider moving when it would mean my DC's would have to make sacrifices?
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notveryinventive · 10/10/2011 22:28
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