I've got a beautiful 3-month-old son, he was 9lb 4 at birth and is now a rather hefty 14lb 1lb. Today I gave him his first taste of baby rice and he loved it.
The reasons why I gave him baby rice today are as follows:
- He started sleeping through the night at seven weeks, but now he wakes for a feed again.
- Halfway through his feed he tries to physically push his bottle away, then complains because he is still hungry
- He chews his hands before and after each feed
- He is absolutely fascinated with our food and drink
- He tries to pick up our food
- God help us if we sit down to a meal and he isn't there. He'll even wake up from a nap if he realizes we're eating without him.
- He refuses to nap during the daytime when before he would sleep for two hours at a time and then be awake for 4-5. And if he DOES nap, he'll sleep for maybe half-an-hour, then get grumpy because he is very tired.
The trouble is that obviously, this incited the wrath of several mums I know who went ballistic on me for weaning before the 17-week mark. I've said that it's my decision, all of the signs are there and they've been there long enough for me to know that this isn't just a growth-spurt but a real thing, but of course they won't listen. One even borderline-accused me of child abuse.
I've told them to butt out and stop being so judgeypants, as I didn't judge them on deciding to start their child on pureéd food at the age of eight months, but they've really upset me.
I realize that the guidelines are there for a reason... but guidelines and just that - GUIDELINES! Aren't they? I'm prepared for abuse from other people on here, but I just want to know.... AIBU?!