Need to vent am so cross........
my two ds' came back from their dads today and I have the following to moan about
- They slept on the floor at new gf's house and not in the bunkbeds they have [this is for the third consecutive weekend}
- No uniform washed
- No breakfast today
- ds2 left to look after gf's daughter for two hours in a rugby club whilst they both trained. Didn't even bother to check on them.
- Spent rest of day in another rugby club where they did their homework.
- No food all day.
- No lunchboxes sent back.
I know I cannot control what someone else does and to be honest its no different to how he would of behaved when we were married except I would have had the children. What annoys me is that he will moan about only having them four nights a month and then not really look after them! grrrrrrr
I did moan to him about this tonight and he basically told me what he did in his own time was none of my business and that he was the fun parent and I am always busy at work [ I have to he doesn't work}
So what I am asking is do I tell him to grow up or they aren't going [they would be devastated] or suck it up?