(Sorry for namechange - I'm a longtime poster but I suspect a colleague knows my normal username.) Annnnyyyyway:
My career has always played "second fiddle" to DH's in terms of importance to the household - always supported my career, but by this I mean that my earning power is dwarfed in comparison to DH (he has never held this over me and our income is pooled very fairly).
But now, DH's job is under redundancy review - apparently if all goes well and the outcome is that he "wins" back his job out of the roles that are staying, he'll get a new contract which will be for at least 3 years or something (essentially very very secure if he gets kept on, and he's said he's quite sure it will be fine).
However, this means that my (admittedly small) income may be as trivial as it always has done, OR it could be our only salary for a few months whilst DH tries to secure a new job We find out the outcome of all of this in a few months (they aim to have completed the process by the new financial year according to DH).
The problem is that I'm hating my job just now, and I have been for the last year or so, steadily more and more. I don't find it fulfilling, I don't find it interesting, and although on paper my progress has been fine (promoted three times in the six years I've been here, I have my own team under me), I'm completely fed up with the office politics and bad management IMHO.
I have to keep my job as it could be our only lifeline in 2012, and there's no hope about me getting another job (I'm paid quite well in terms of the market rate for my role at the moment, so wouldn't get any more money, and i'd lost my extra benefits like holidays and bonus, potentially).
The problem is - Although DH knows how much I'm hating it - I don't have a choice but to stick with it. Of course, I will do this because it's for the good of the household - but AIBU to ask you all to share your coping tips?
Do you have any practical or mental tips that can help me overcome my sunday night depression, knowing I'm back at work tomorrow and detesting every moment of that experience?
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... to ask what your coping strategies are when you hate your job? Any practical tips?
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ohgoditssunday · 09/10/2011 19:55
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