Our neighbour is a widow in her late 80s. She is a really lovely lady who is always friendly and everyone loves her.
As she doesnt have transport, or family very close by, we do little jobs for her. We will pick up things from the shops for her (which she always reimberses us for), my DH always mows her lawn when he does ours, and once he painted all of the base of her house when he did ours.
In return, she always takes in packages for us, and also makes little treats like cake and biscuits which she brings around.
But she has always said that she doesnt like to be a pest, and doesnt like asking for things. She has been saying for a long time that she wants to do something for us.
We have said 'no no no, we dont mind at all' and 'call yus anytime you need us' but she kept insisting she wanted to do something for us.
We know she does a lot of sewing (which she charges for) and we wanted some new cushions for the living room. So we asked her if she could make them for us- which she was thrilled to agree to.
We supplied all the materials, including thread, material, zips and a picture of what we are after and asked her to make us 4.
She had a lot of jobs from other people so it has been about 8 weeks since she took all the material and agreed to make them.
She brought them round today- they look amazing- really professional. We said 'thank you so much they are fantastic, we love them' and my DH said 'are you sure we can't give you anything for them?' to which she replied 'well it's up to you isn't it?'
So now we dont know what to do! I was planning to get her a thank you card and some flowers, then continue as normal. But now we think we should probably give her some cash... but how much?
The materials have already cost us about £30. They are lovely cushions, the type that would cost about £25 each...
Should we stick £30 into a thank you card, or more? or less?
I just dont know, and we dont want to upset her. But equally, we werent expecting to pay her for them, as she wanted to do something for us!
advice please...
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Dorris83 · 09/10/2011 16:05
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