DS came home today absolutely incensed;
a lad on the bus (year older then DS I think, yr 10) keeps 'slapping girls arses' and from what I can gather, grabbed a year 8 girl and forced her to sit on his lap for the duration of the journey.
DS said he is a 'filthy perve' and shouted at him, DS and the girl don't get on but he was still furious, the girl is from what I know a little troubled and has a shaky background.
The lad then started to threaten DS, and he admits he was glad he stood up to him but a bit troubled by the lad, who apparently isn't one to cross, until another girl backed DS up and joined in which I think diffused the focus off DS. (because the lad realised others were standing up to him).
I am torn... I want to report it, am proud of DS and for the girl, I think this lad needs some serious 'talking too'..
I am a bit of a wuss and get filled with self doubt...so am I interfering? my gut says yes but should still do so because if the girl doesn't talk to anyone it can escalate on so many levels. How do I do it without making life difficult for DS? He stood up to the boy so it is going to look so obvious where the information has come from?
DS has come along way on a difficult journey and I'd like to balance doing the 'right' thing with not plunging him into the middle of something.
I know I am a muppet but I don't have anyone to talk things like this through with and would appreciate others thoughts...
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Reporting incident on school bus....
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MittzyTheVixen · 07/10/2011 21:26
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