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Guilt trip for not going to a party

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LoopyLoopsPussInBoots Fri 07-Oct-11 01:08:53

My friend is having a big birthday party soon, about 200 miles away. She called earlier to check we're still going (yes) and wanted to make sure I was OK with the kids not being able to come. Er, no I'm not. They've been to most events before, and I had already been told they could. They've changed the plans, which is fine, but I said I now can't go.
Youngest DD is nearly 4 months and EBF. I could leave her with DH and a few bottles, but I don't want to, so I've said I'd rather not. I said DH could go alone, she wants me (both friends with her and her DH). Now she's cross with me. AIBU?

LeBOF Fri 07-Oct-11 01:09:52

No, YANBU.

sunnydelight Fri 07-Oct-11 01:11:49

If she previously said your children could come and has changed her mind then no, YANBU for changing your mind and not going.

LoopyLoopsPussInBoots Fri 07-Oct-11 01:14:02

Well, it was her DH not her who said they could come.

Either way, I'm not going so ner ner ner ner ner.

LoveBeingAMummyAgain Fri 07-Oct-11 04:57:17

Don't blame you

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