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To think that sexless marriages

(65 Posts)
JustBinIt Thu 06-Oct-11 23:19:09

Are very sad and those who claim to be happy in them are in denial?

BoysAreLikeDogs Thu 06-Oct-11 23:20:53

in denial of what?

we need more info

RidcullySentTheBursarMad Thu 06-Oct-11 23:21:59

I think it's none of your business what goes on in someone else's marriage. If they claim to be happy, why are you bothered? hmm

piprabbit Thu 06-Oct-11 23:22:57

More info please - for instance, I would like to know why you think it is any of your business what happens inside other people's marriages. Especially when they are telling you they are happy.

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

EllaDee Thu 06-Oct-11 23:25:56

Ridcully - it might be her marriage too?

I agree we need more info. I think it probably depends on whether people are honest with themselves or not. Much easier to be happy if you honestly know why you're not having sex and have either made peace with that or gone into it knowing that's not on the cards.

JustBinIt Thu 06-Oct-11 23:25:57

One of them is cheating or they are both sad.

squeakytoy Thu 06-Oct-11 23:26:31

And you know that how?

hmc Thu 06-Oct-11 23:26:35

This promises to be interesting [adds to 'watch' list]

EllaDee Thu 06-Oct-11 23:27:25

I don't understand you just - is this someone you know? If so I think you can't judge based on so little evidence - unless one of them has asked you for advice or something?

BertieBotts Thu 06-Oct-11 23:28:05

Perhaps they are asexual? Or have an open marriage? Or perhaps it's none of your business??

JustBinIt Thu 06-Oct-11 23:30:36

I didn't say it is my bussiness.Just my opinion.

iceandsliceplease Thu 06-Oct-11 23:32:54

Your opinion based on what though?

iceandsliceplease Thu 06-Oct-11 23:33:22

Or is this just a fight thread?

EllaDee Thu 06-Oct-11 23:33:53

Your opinion ... on all sexless marriages?

Ok then.

confused

BoysAreLikeDogs Thu 06-Oct-11 23:33:55

I don't know what you are driving at

Sexless does not mean loveless

BoysAreLikeDogs Thu 06-Oct-11 23:34:35

oh, a fight thread

I'm offski

Tortington Thu 06-Oct-11 23:35:32

JBI your a judgey pants.

it would be sad for me becuase i really like to fuck. i feel sad that other women dont like to fuck but don't presume that they are sad necessarily

Hungrydragon Thu 06-Oct-11 23:35:44

What about nuns? They seem jolly content in sexless marriages and they have a higher life expectancy!

JustRedbin Thu 06-Oct-11 23:38:00

Do you mean no sex at all, even with themselves? (hides the batteries)

Tortington Thu 06-Oct-11 23:38:43

nuns live on the thought of hitting children with rulers

Hungrydragon Thu 06-Oct-11 23:41:45

Custardo! You've held the secret to longevity all this time and nit shared!

<immediately envisages thwacking Charlie and Lola with a ruler>

Hungrydragon Thu 06-Oct-11 23:42:16

Not shared, even

hester Thu 06-Oct-11 23:43:34

Your opinion, or what you would like to think?

And why on earth do you care?

JustBinIt Thu 06-Oct-11 23:44:16

BertieBotts one of them might be asexual. What about the other?

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