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To be annoyed that dh has come home with viagra?

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pink4ever Thu 06-Oct-11 18:52:34

I am a bitconfused Sex life has been pretty dire for about the past 5 years but he doesnt have any problems<ahem> getting it up. Just never seems that interested in doing the deed. If it were up to him we would probably dtd once a month,whereas if it up to me it would be more like 3 times a week.

I have tried all the usual stuff to reignite his interest-toys,dress up etc and I did jokingly suggest he try viagra-but it was genuinely just that-a joke.

So am I bu that he has ordered it without even discussing it with me?. Also makes me feel a bit shit about myself if am honest-that he feels the need to use this to want to have sex with me.

Witchofthenorth Thu 06-Oct-11 18:56:49

Did he take it is a joke?

Personally, I would have some fun wink You may go AWOL for days grin

I wouldn't take it as he needs Viagra to have sex with you to be honest and more that he is trying to increase his sex drive to compromise with your higher one. However, that is only my opinion and I am sure others will be along shortly.

Roseflower Thu 06-Oct-11 18:56:53

Well he is making in effort to improve and make things better for both of you.

Don't give him a hard time about it (no pun intended!)

balia Thu 06-Oct-11 18:59:17

Maybe he seems not interested because he's worried about maintaining his erection and viagra makes him feel more confident?

squeakytoy Thu 06-Oct-11 19:03:16

I did jokingly suggest he try viagra... not really something to joke about unless you want to deflate his ego even more though...

So he has taken you at your word and seems willing to give it a go. Perhaps he has been having problems in that department, and it is the reason he has been avoiding sex. I wouldnt have a go at him if he is trying to do something about it.

FabbyChic Thu 06-Oct-11 19:04:23

Hey it shows he wants to try to please you, not sure what your problem is be pleased he loves you enough to try. Getting Viagra from the doctors costs a fortune.

MangoMonster Thu 06-Oct-11 19:04:23

Agree with witchofthenorth

So he's got a lower sex drive than you and he has taken action so that he can perhaps have sex more often because he knows you want to?

It's pretty humiliating for a bloke (normally) to admit he can't get it up (and you don't buy viagra if the old chap is working at his best!) yet he's done it - for you. Not for him, because he's happy with "once a month" but for you, because you want sex more.

I think he sounds like he loves you and wants to please you.

unfitmother Thu 06-Oct-11 19:11:11

I agree, you should be pleased.

pink4ever Thu 06-Oct-11 19:17:15

So maybe I am bu then? he didnt get it from the doctors either-got it from online pharmacy(reputable one though). Still think he should have discussed it with me first though-maybe it will be fun-bit worried now in case he becomes more rampant than me!

catgirl1976 Thu 06-Oct-11 19:35:40

Take some as well pink and enjoy

Witchofthenorth Thu 06-Oct-11 19:38:59

Have fun wink

PomBearAtTheGatesOfDawn Thu 06-Oct-11 19:39:55

He could have come home with VD!!!
Just er, lie back and think of frootshoots? grin

edwinbear Thu 06-Oct-11 20:50:46

I bloody well wish my DH would get some.

troisgarcons Thu 06-Oct-11 21:25:26

TBH - you'd better hope he hasn't got any undiagnosed medical conditions.... I hope he didnt get quack stuff from the internet and went to his doctor

Flowerista Thu 06-Oct-11 21:28:55

YABU - a DH who does as he is told is to be cherished. Now, get thee upstairs to thy bed woman!

BluddyMoFo Thu 06-Oct-11 21:30:22

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

Roseflower Thu 06-Oct-11 21:33:35

Are you sure he should be taking stuff he got off the net though... you don't want it to be dangerous

<spoil sport>

Proudnscary Thu 06-Oct-11 21:36:22

Pop in the post to me, I'll...ummm....confiscate it.

MissVerinder Thu 06-Oct-11 21:38:10

Erm.... How does it work on women?

CupOfBrownJoy Thu 06-Oct-11 21:42:40

get stuck in smile

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