Im going to try and keep this short so please bear with me
12 months ago my OH fell out with his parents, it was a stupid argument, we had to travel 6 hours to pick a puppy up and leave at half five, they were minding my SD and his dad asked for a lift to work about 40 minutes after we needed to leave. We were on time constraints and the twelve hour journey was going to cause problems as it was with feeding the poor puppy etc so OH said can we make it about 20 minutes earlier, his dad flipped and said alsorts to the effect of him being an ungreatful little shit, his mum then chipped in fine, we will get SD up at the crack of dawn then, at which point OH left the house taking SD with us, who instead just slept in the car most of the way
Silly argument, they knew it, we knew it and agreed to draw a line under it, they have her once a week and did as planned, they then contacted to say that they felt that we were with holding contact because we hadnt gone round one saturday, she rang and had a real go at OH on the night before his birthday then totally ignored his birthday
Since then we have been at a stale mate, they see their grand daughter once or twice a week, he actually gives up a full nights contact so they can have her, they refused our christmas presents, they refused my invitations to the house for christmas and her birthday and a few other things and have stated that they will not have anything more to do with OH until he appologises
Now im 12 weeks pregnant, and my mindset is if they cant call a truce they can fuck off quite frankly, SD is a different matter they have a close relationship with her and I would never interfere with that nor would the OH however they barely know me because of the row and Im adamant im not tripping round with the baby to keep them happy, if they want to see it they swallow their pride and visit at my house when it comes
OH's brother thinks Im being awful - am I being unreasonable given that they have turned down at least five peace offers?
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themightyskim · 05/10/2011 15:29
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