Background: Getting married in 6 weeks, have made huge effort to lose weight for it, have lost 1.5 stone so far through healthy eating and exercise. I have now moved onto meal replacement drinks for a last push. I have also given up smoking (its only been two days but still) as it's high time and I don't want to be a smokey bride.
I turned to DP last night and said,"I can't wait for us to married. I am going to eat EVERYTHING after we are haha" (I didn't mean I was going to get fat, I just meant I was looking forward to eating again iyswim)
He said "Nooooo don't do that, don't become a porker"
We had a conversation after this, and he basically said if I got too fat he'd leave me. It transpires he was imagining me being 40 stone (I weigh 12 right now) which is quite a dramatic change, and not at all likely, but it upset me as I thought he was supposed to be with me for me, not my body (which is funny as my body's rubbish anyway!).
I can understand that he wouldn't find me sexually attractive at that size, but still. I feel I'd still love him if he were 40 stone and wouldn't leave, even if I couldn't have sex anymore.
So...am I just being over emotional about it because I'm not smoking and not eating? (Both of which make me emotional haha)
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loveglove · 05/10/2011 09:38
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