A relative of DP is asking us to support her for something she is doing for charity (not saying which-annonymity etc). The charity in question is one that my partner and i already donate to on a regular basis (£20 per month) but we decided to sponser her as well (£5 - not much but we have another baby on the way and as i said we do already donate to the charity). Well before we donated (which was only a week after being asked as we just didn't get round to it sooner) we got loads of text messages, emails, facebook messages etc basically telling us to, and now that we have we keep getting messages asking us to donate more! what annoys me as well is that it is a cancer charity, both my parents have suffered from cancer and my father unfortunately didn't recover and died young (and not that long ago). in all these texts, emails etc to us she keeps going on about people suffering and support for families etc and if i'm honest it bloody annoys me and i just don't want to hear it atm...i already deal with this charity, i know people suffer and it is horrible, however i think she should pick her audience and be grateful that we are already donating.
if i'm honest, i think she is doing it for attention and so that everyone can say how wonderful she is which grates on me. we have given other members reasons why we have not donated much (basically we know that a large proportion of the money that is raised from people doing these one-offs is used up in the administration put into processing the money, whereas the way we choose to do it entails very little admin costs and allows the charity to budget long-term). i respect what she is doing and i know that she is raising the profile of the charity, but i just don't want to be asked for more money or to see all these depressing emails etc at this moment in time when i am still grieving myself.
DP wants to call her and telling her not to include is in her mailing lists, private facebook messages, texts etc and that she is been insensitive asking us for more money. however i can just see it going down like a lead balloon and us being called tight etc.
so are we NBU to be annoyed, or are we just being tight? before i get slated i do respect people for doing these things for charity and asking people to donate, but surely there are limits?
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mumofbumblebea · 04/10/2011 17:08
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