Long story short, about a month ago there was a spectacular falling out, as a result my DH and I no longer speak to my dad and his wife.
Things were said, hurtful things were done and we haven't seen them since.
Now, my DSis has asked if she can take DD over to visit them in a few weeks.
I have said no, on the grounds that DH, DD and I come as a package, they cannot pick and choose who they wish to include in their family. I also think things would be said about my DH and I in earshot of DD, and I do not want her around people who may well bad mouth her parents.
So, am I being unreasonable by denying her a relationship with them?
To complicate things further, they have a DS and DD (3 years and 10 weeks old), I have said DSis is welcome to meet me at a soft play or other neutral ground with them so DD can still see them. (This may well seem hypocritical, BUT it was my Dad's wife basically calling me a liar over a big issue and my dad sided with her that caused the falling out).
I hope I have made sense, it is very complicated! I just dont see why they feel they should still see my DD, when I have been called a liar, troublemaker etc and DH slagged off to the moon and back.
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To stop my dad and his wife from seeing DD?
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TheRealMrsHannigan · 03/10/2011 15:33
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