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to be a bit p'd off with SIL for asking DD if she is a Virgin.

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BarbaraMillicentRoberts Mon 03-Oct-11 13:25:05

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LorelaisMommy Mon 03-Oct-11 13:27:17

Erm, no, you are not BU!!

BeerTricksPotter Mon 03-Oct-11 13:27:31

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scotchmeg Mon 03-Oct-11 13:28:46

How old is DD? That is completly unacceptable. I hate when people treat teenagers as less than adults. Have some f**king respect SIL!

yummybunny Mon 03-Oct-11 13:29:10

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MinnieBar Mon 03-Oct-11 13:29:27

How old is your DD?

And did she tell your SIL that it's none of her business or did you?

auntmargaret Mon 03-Oct-11 13:29:53

Wow. Unbelieveably inappropriate. What age is your DD? I`d have been livid and would probably have told her so. YANBU.

kblu Mon 03-Oct-11 13:30:50

i'd have been livid too. None of her fucking business whatever age your dd is.

posey Mon 03-Oct-11 13:31:05

You are absolutely not being unreasonable. Completely out of order. Next time there is a family gathering ask her something equally embarrassing.

PomBearAtTheGatesOfDawn Mon 03-Oct-11 13:32:05

Wait until Christmas Lunch or similar and casually ask her, accross the table, if she found out if it was herpes or not...

SardineQueen Mon 03-Oct-11 13:32:56


Bloody hell shock

cjbartlett Mon 03-Oct-11 13:33:02

how odl is your dd?!!

and how old is your sister?!

was it meant to be some kind of crass joke? was your sister drunk?

Tomorrowslookingfine Mon 03-Oct-11 13:34:03

I like Pombear's idea grin

Tomorrowslookingfine Mon 03-Oct-11 13:34:24

YANBU by the way!

HedleyLamarr Mon 03-Oct-11 13:35:17

I like PomBears solution!
YANBU by the way. What an insensitive woman.

BarbaraMillicentRoberts Mon 03-Oct-11 13:35:52

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unreasonableme Mon 03-Oct-11 13:36:09

Were it not for the fact the the child in question is still a toddler I'd believe you were talking about my sister. Within 5 mins of meeting a gay flatmate of mine she was asking who was the king and who the queen of his relationship (and yes, she was meaning penetration!).

Some people have no idea of social normality. I hope your DD responded appropriately.

HedleyLamarr Mon 03-Oct-11 13:36:25

Damn you slow typing fingers! TLF got there first! blush

Red2011 Mon 03-Oct-11 13:36:35

Bloody hell! What kind of question is that for anyone to ask anyone in front of family?

Not quite the same but reminded me of a friend of mine who was asked by her (then) 6 year old niece at a full family gathering, "X, you're a girl - you've got a vagina haven't you?". The friend in question is the youngest of 6 and her parents were pretty elderly even then. I believe her Dad spat his tea out.

blackeyedsusan Mon 03-Oct-11 13:37:15

did you not come back at her and ask who she last slept with as she is happy discussing such personal things?

how rude of her.

cookcleanerchaufferetc Mon 03-Oct-11 13:40:26

How awful! You need to have words with your SIL as this is innappropriate. At that age being asked things like that is gebnerally mortifying.

On a lighter note I hope she said yes!!!

aliceliddell Mon 03-Oct-11 13:40:47

Twelve?! TWELVE?! TWELVE?! Is she insane???
Btw, I think YANBU

ENormaSnob Mon 03-Oct-11 13:40:54

I am disgusted that she thinks this an acceptable question for a 12 year old child.

AFuckingKnackeredWoman Mon 03-Oct-11 13:42:08


I would of caused a scene

JustinBoobie Mon 03-Oct-11 13:42:58


WT actual F?

I would have taken her outside and kicked her in the front.

12?????? Jesus!!

shock x 100

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