I honestly don't know if IABU or not, and would really value your opinions before I phone this teacher and start ranting. Don't know if I am being a pushy parent here!
Bit of background, DS1 (12, year 8), has always played in the school football team since he started the school in year 5. This year a load of them have gone off to Grammar so there's always a fair number of new children starting the school, including some of the boys that play with him in his club football team. DS knew that this meant there would be extra competition for a place on the team this year, and told me he would be working extra hard at tryouts to try and keep his position. Training sessions have been for the last 4 weeks after school.
He came home from school upset on Friday saying that he hadn't been chosen. Fair enough I thought, maybe the others just played better than him (although his friends told me that they couldn't understand it as he'd played brilliantly proud mother )!
What's annoyed me though is that two of the boys that have been chosen to play on the team have not been to any of the training sessions after school and have been going to a different after school club instead. I do know this for a fact as spoke with one of their mums while waiting to pick up a couple of times, and she told me that he'd rather do the other activity and would only be going to a small number of the after school football sessions during the term if he could make it.
AIBU to think that you should only be considered for a place on the team if you actually turn up for the tryouts? I want to call this teacher today and tell him that I think it sends out a poor message to the children that actually do turn up each week but are overlooked in favour of his "favourites", but I honestly don't know if I am being overly pushy, or if i am being swayed by the fact that DS was so upset. Discussed it with DH, who is usually firmly of the opinion that I shouldn't get involved, and was surprised when he said that I should call and discuss it.
So before I make a total arse of myself (not very good at conversations like this), I though I would ask here, and see what you lot thought! Sorry for length, first time posting in AIBU, please be kind!
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nogoodusernamesleft · 03/10/2011 08:48
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