AIBU To shout at my mother for interfering with my wedding plans?
I am getting married in 2013, my partner of 10 years only proposed to me a few weeks ago so we haven't made many plans yet - the only thing we have decided on is that we want a wedding abroad. My Mother is happy that we are getting married but hasn't made any suggestions / given ideas on the wedding .... the only thing she did do today, which has really pissed me off is told my sister she can be bridesmaid (I did not want my sister to be bridesmaid), my sister is in her 30's, I am more than happy for her daughter to be one of my bridesmaids, my mother also told my 12 and 14 year old nephews that they can be Ushers (again, something that I don't want). When we were in private I told her that she had no right to plan the roles of people in my wedding party - she acted all hard done by and said that the Mother of the bride is supposed to help with the planning, she didn't seem to understand that this does not mean she can pick my bridesmaids .... She has now ignored me for the whole day and is acting like the injured party and trying to make me feel guilty. I don't think that I am being unreasonable at all ... what do you think?
I honestly feel like calling the whole thing off ... the only reason why we have never got married before is because of my weird family - Parents divorced, father hasn't spoken to mother in 19 years, father doesn't speak to my siblings... oh what a fun wedding this will be!!
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AIBU?
For not wanting my mother to pick my bridesmaids?!!
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Bellar82 · 02/10/2011 17:29
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