First time posting. Am furious with dh. Our 8 month old dd is not a great sleeper. She is still breastfeeding in the night at 11pm, 2.30am and 4.30am and then awake at 6am. She is over 20 pounds so really doesn?t need the milk.
Dh was meant to help me wean her off these night feeds, starting this weekend so he could catch up on lost sleep. Our friend Jim was round last night and the two of them were playing computer games.
I want to bed at 9pm and dh very kindly let me sleep by looking after dd. She woke at 4.30am really wanting a feed and I got up to see to her expecting dh to be very tired. Went downstairs and found dh and Jim still awake at 4.30am and dh was quite drunk. He said she woke at 1.30am, had some water and did not want to go back to sleep so he brought her downstairs with him and Jim.
Am so angry, his intensions were quite sweet, letting me catch up on much needed sleep but him and his friend got through 4 bottles of wine. While he was not staggering around it was obvious he had been drinking. He is still in bed as did not turn in until 5.30am, what on should I say to him when he wakes.
Most of the time he is a great dh and dad.
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KinsoM · 01/10/2011 12:09
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