Know there is a different thread on this but was about a 15 and 16 year old...which is v different!
My 18 year old daughter is off to uni this weekend, but has been with her boyfriend since about May. I know they've had sex, and am completely fine with that- they are 18, happy together and I'm just proud she waited until him, someone she really likes, trusts and loves, to loose her virginity.
Her boyfriend's parents don't allow her to stay over in the same bed as him she must sleep in the spare room, I can see there reasons however she has just asked if the weekend in 4 weeks time they plan to both come back from uni if they can stay here. We have no spare bed, I know other weeks later on they will go and stay at uni in each others beds. I know saying one must sleep on the floor just woulnt happen. I have no problem with them sharing a bed at this age. Any younger and I would think different.
I also very much believe at 18 I have no rights to tell her she can't, I can guide her but at the end of the day she makes her own choices. I have instilled high morals in her and she has always been fairly respectful of my views. I now in turn respect her as an adult and trust I have brought her up to make the best choices in life.
I have absolutely no problem with it (they are 18!) but don't want to upset her boyfriend's parents if they have that rule.
AIBU to worry about her BF's parents? If I had set a rule I would not want to be contradicted by them.
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Happymum22 · 29/09/2011 00:34
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